Loneliness. Divorce. How to cope to gain new power?

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A client of mine was in the midst of a divorce, stuck with her immigration status, risking being deported.

Lonely, stressed, and depressed.

We explored the depth of that loneliness, and it echoed right back with more familiar depths from her childhood.

Her grandfather died. She felt lonely. 

Lonely, dealing with grief and pain on her own. 

Lonely, dealing with the world on her own. 

Lonely, dealing with divorce now all on her own.

The same pain that circled back.

Once we released that pressure with Satori Healing exercise, it lost its charge and stopped draining her energy. 

The most rewarding result was her feedback afterward: 

- I believe it was the first time I’ve ever come up with new goals and desires for myself, and not just for the people around.




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